The countdown begins

This year has already been a write off for so many of us and we still have 5 months left. However, amidst all the doom and gloom, we decided to start planning our wedding. I know there is a lot of uncertainty around when normal weddings will be back to normal but, I am hoping…

Moving Out

So after 26 years the time finally came. I have finally moved out of my parents house with my fiance 😁. For some time i had been mentally ready to move out, have my own place and gain some independence but, due to ill health, i was unable to take the leap quite as soon…

Last weeks little joys

I spend a lot of time thinking about not being productive throughout the week as I don’t have the typical commitments that people who work do. It can be really hard not to compare myself to others and think that what I am doing is enough. That is why, as a mental reminder to myself…

Just a girl who decided to go for it

If you read my last post ‘Self-love and striving for happiness’, then you will know that I am unemployed and have been for the last 3 years. Having to stop working was not an easy decision to make, however, due to the circumstances, it became my only option. Although I have come to terms with…

2018 – Just believe that good things are on their way

Since my hospital residential pain management stay in October I haven’t really had much inspiration when it has come to writing posts. All of the information and advice I have to offer I shared during my time in the hospital and have since just been keeping busy and trying my best to live without my…

I know it sucks and its scary but its time to be brave

It is a scary and isolating place to be in when your health starts to decline, especially when your life has only just begun. Only last year I was able to go out, work and live a relatively normal life without pain and fatigue, the simple things I took for granted. Now I have an…